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Outcast... why we promote this???
Hey, haven’t got the chance to write much about this topic before but today, my heart says that it is a must for me to do so. Maybe because I am just to afraid to write this and in the end I might felt that somehow what I’m gonna write will be deflected back on my face. Gee, maybe I shouldn’t...
Nonetheless, there’s no turning back... so, here I am writing this and hopping that this will become my guideline to stop people around me and myself from participating in such act...
Back in my primary school days, I met this boy named Q (his real name is hidden, in case any of you wanna look for himJ). Almost every time I met him, he will do errands for others. He would go and buy food for them, would make them laugh just because he wants to fit in. But his friends never let him in their circle, not even once. Maybe it is due to his slow learner in his study and sports that make him looked weak.
There is this one time during PE period, where my class and his were combined, we were practicing on 100m run, his friend or more known as big bully drop him down in the middle of him running. It was such a heartbreaking. Just because they think that they are better than Q, it doesn’t meant that they can put a boundaries around him.
Maybe, I am to blame because I’m unable to help him then. It’s not that I’m not trying to land a hand but, we were in different class and everyone was afraid of his classmates.
In my opinion, teachers need to play their role in overcoming this problem via;
1.   Recognizing the students
2.   Take note of the changes that happened around their students.
3.   Strengthening the bond among students.
4.   Inform parents and other teachers about the problems.
As a friend or people around, we should:
1.   Informed the teachers or the authorities.
2.   Never take part in the act.
3.   Give encouragement to the victims.
4.   Land him ur ears.
I detect that this problem still happening around me. I felt sorry for the victim and I wanna yank at those filthy fellow that did that, but who am I to talk. I’m just a girl with no power against guys which are much older and superior than I’m. Sometimes, the problems occur due to slight misconception and just by a tiny little scratch of mistakes made. Sometimes, it happened because we felt challenge by their ability. Sometimes, we just wanna find other’s fault to make us felt better.  Some people just wanna have fun. Sometimes, it turn out to be due to JEALOUSY...   
 All I can do now is befriend with everyone and hopping that everyone will stop out casting others... and stop being a HATERS.. maybe everyone should sit back and reflect on their past so that the future won’t be the same... remember: OUR ACTION DEFINE WHO WE ARE....  *..*




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