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LoVey dOVey... NO No No



Gee.. I’m in love!!!
Well, everyone will experience a time where a guy confess to you and ask you to become his couple.  Hmmm... If you are in that girl’s shoes, what would you do?  Some of us might be in a dilemma in deciding but some of us might come up with a quick decision either rejecting or accepting the proposal.  While deciding, all of these might come up in your mind:
1.   Whether the guy is the one for you
2.   Does he qualifies to be your bf
3.   Is he handsome enough
4.   Whether he is fair (skin)  or not
5.   Rich or poor
6.   Faithful to the religion or not
7.  Can b a good husband in the near future or not... and many more.
There you go...  These might came up in your mind right???
I’m not about to discuss on the ways to act upon receiving proposal... so, guest what??
SPOILER: the statement and my thought below is not suitable to be read by COUPLED... but, I dare you!!!!!
In my humble opinion, those characteristics fit for those who are in pursuit for a husband, not be fit those who are in search for a boyfriend. As a Muslim, everyone actually knows that COUPLING is HARAM, no one is excluded. Well, for those who say that they don’t know, I think u have to go and check what is wrong with your head. Stop making excuses people, because once it is forbidden, it always will be.
I’m not just telling this with the capacity of a haters, but I’m telling from my deepest thought. I’ve always had these tendencies of telling others about my opinion, but since everyone is so into coupling, I cannot say much... so, hopefully, everyone will start to see the light and change.
Some people might tell me to stop acting pious. But who are they to decide who I am, only ALLAH SWT knows me best.
For me, I considered my past experience with guys as a way Allah SWT to test me whether I am a good servant to him or just merely ignore him. Alhamdulillah, I’m still on the right path. Abide by HIS rule. Hey guys...
Note this: “in terms of love and lovers, Allah SWT has decide who is our partner, our time, doa and effort will show us the way to it. If we cannot find our jodoh (partner) now, we might find it in the future. If we still couldn’t find it (jodoh) then it is our jodoh...”
I haven’t find mine, but I’ll keep praying and searching for the right one and when the time comes, I will surely marry my JODOH.
To all Muslim out there, stop coupling, Allah SWT have give us the best way to chose... so why don’t chose a love life after marriage, which is more honourable and bless by Allah SWT.
May Allah SWT grant me, a JODOH that is the best for me, and the right one for me. May Allah SWT, cherish me under his care and keep my faith strong... so that I won’t be drag into ZINA ( kemungkaran)..... <3




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